Man date

'Sup

Past few days, I was looking for a new friend. Maybe the plan is to weed out a few friends and gain a new one. Reason? Nothing. Just for the lulz. Besides, I get bored easily. Some of my friends are replaceable anyways. I don't need a friend who comes to you when have a problem.

Since this is the 21st century, I must act like a very hi-tech person. So, off to the online social sites I go. In search of a man date. Well, before you go all gay faggot on me, I'm not looking for a guy to fuck. Man, come on. Just to find some casual friends. Someone cool to hang out with. But, uh anyways, not that I have a problem with gays tho.

Friendster, Facebook, IRL later, I found a couple of 'em. Some are cool, some well, uh...sucks. Well, it's still a work in progress.

We'll see how.

Later.

Italian Spiderman

This movie is the shit dudes!

A must see I tell you

Breaking up

'Sup

Ever have a friend that you actually don't want to be friends with, but have to? Maybe because of pity, related to family or forced?

I have that one. He constantly call me. Maybe twice a week, asking to go hangout or something. We have nothing in common. When we hang out, it's always dead silence. Only a bit of conversation like, "How are you", "How's work". So, everytime he call and want to hang out, I have to keep making excuses until I ran out of it.

How do you break up with a guy? You just meet up and say, "Dude, I think we should stop hanging out. It's not you, it's me."?

That's weird. Well, I dunno LOL. We'll see.

Later.

Money whore

'Sup

Ever go dine with a woman? Not your girlfriend. Just friend. Colleague. Office mate. Friend of a friend. Whatever. Used to when still schooling. Now, on working days, usually I went in group that more than 2 people.

So it happens one day that one female colleague ask me to accompany her for lunch. Hey, sure, I like lunch and I like to eat. She want to eat pasta. So, ok. Off we go to lunch.

Bla bla bla...eating and talking, when it comes to the paying the bill part, she ask me to pay for her meal. Now now, what the fuck is this? I didn't agree to this. If I know I was gonna have to pay for some random bitch for a lunch, I better off to see prostitute or alternatively, dine alone.

Some poking, here and there, bla bla bla, pinjam dulu, etc. I pay for the food. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not stingy. I'd buy you lunch. I don't mind the price. But, I should consent/agree to it first before going to dine. I don't like surprises and certainly I don't like bitches who take advantage of people. If you want me to buy your lunch, ask me first. Damnit, I should leave her there alone.

When buying someone a meal, it should come from the heart. If you don't feel like it, it cannot be forced. it's like taking one in the arse or buttsex for short.

So, remember. You want people to pay for your meal, ask first. Or at least give something back like a quickie or blow job.

Later.

Flash thing

I know you guys pissed off with the flash thingy.

Ookay. I'll remove the redirection.

Lulz has been had.

Anyways, here's another interesting blog: click here.

ATM rage

'Sup?

Today is not that a good day for me. It was ok, but I'm not in the mood. Well, monday blues LOL. It used to be a favorite day but now, mehh...not so much. But still, life goes on. We have to do what we got to do.

Woke up, punch in at the office and went out for breakfast before heading to clients office. I actually prefer to hang around at office but well, duty calls. I hope the damn company find me a new assistant fast.

During all this thing that I do today, I stop by Maybank KLCC to reload my Touch & Go. The line is not that long and I thought it'll not take too much time. Underestimate the Murphy Law you shall not young padawan.

Just two problems there.

The female in front take too much time to withdraw money. I mean, what the fuck man? Insert card, push here and there, done. It's your money and you should know the balance.

When it comes to my turn, the guy behind me stand too close for comfort. What's this dude problem? So I turn back and shout some insults. Reload my Touch & Go, and shout insult some more. The drill? Go find Maybank KLCC CCTV. Well sorry dude, don't invade other people private space next time.

That's all for my monday rants. Later.

Reading it right

'Sup?

When buying a book for reading purposes (i.e: Novels, Story book. Not education types of book), given a choice, do you bought the one that you already master the language?

Well, most people buy the ones they already know. Idiots. How about pick a book which language you didn't master yet. For example, buying english or bahasa books for those who don't master the language yet.

I was sitting, minding my own business on the blackberry and the girl next to me is reading this cheesy love novel. I was like, eww, what the fuck is this. Isn't it better if you read english books. Add more vocabulary. Master the language.

Improve your lives day by day damnit.

That's all

Why I like to take the LRT

'Sup dudes. Here's something that I like to share with all of youse.

I drive a car to work. Easier. The only problem with driving is finding a parking spot and traffic jam. Fukken place don't have an allocation yet for monthly pass. I have to wait until somebody die first.

So, another alternative is taking the LRT. I don't like it at first, but then, I slowly adapt to it. Why? I get to exercise.

1. The leg
Walking from the LRT car park to the station. Wait for the LRT to come. Walk from LRT to my destination. Heck. That's a lot of walking and the use of legs.

2. The hands
Holding the handle or anything that you can grab in the LRT. Swiping the card. Woahh, it's gonna buff up my arms man.

3. Body
A lot of walking surely can burn some fat. Good for health. Who knows it'll give you a six pack too?

4. Eyes
Moving eyes up and down, left and right. Looking at what? Downblouse cleavage or upskirts of course. LOL.

That's all for now

Guide to G-Spot: #5

G-spot Stimulation During Intercourse (Thrusting Techniques for Men):
The techniques below are for men to use when having intercourse with their partners. Before you have intercourse you should have already done either the manual stimulation or the combined oral and manual stimulation techniques as covered in the men’s section of the manual.

Now choose a position that will provide good G-spot stimulation as shown in the sexual position section of this manual that follows. Then follow the techniques below.

Thrusting Techniques:

• Short Shallow Strokes with your penis aimed at the GSA or G-Spot. You only penetrate an inch or two and then withdraw to the edge but not all the way out. Repeat the motion stimulating her G-spot.
• Pressure Strokes which are almost the same as the above strokes except that once you contact the G-spot you really don’t leave you it, you just rock back and forth varying the pressure on the G-spot.
• Fast & Hard Strokes this is good old fashioned thrusting other wise know as a Good Hard Fuck! But the trick here is that you thrust for 10 to 15 strokes and then withdraw very quickly just as fast or faster than you were thrusting in. The pause for a few seconds and then repeat. This type of thrusting and withdrawal can often cause a women to ejaculate and is actually mimicking the type of thrusting that women use with their dildos who experience female ejaculation.
• Keep Conscious of where your thrusts are aiming and try to aim them at the GSA.
  

Now you don’t always have to be stimulating the GSA, women love deeper intercourse as well and also intercourse that stimulates the clitoris, but that is beyond the scope of this manual.

G-spot/Clitoral Stimulation During Intercourse (Techniques for Women):
The technique below are for women do use while having intercourse. Make sure you are already very aroused or have had an orgasm already if you are multi-orgasmic. Then use the one or all of the techniques below.

Techniques for Women:

• Get In The Right Position: When you and your partner are having intercourse choose a position that will provide good G-spot stimulation. The positions in the following section are great for G-spot stimulation try them all and see which works best for you.
• Get On Top and Take Charge: By choosing a women on top position you will be able to control the rhythm, depth and angle of the thrust of your lovers penis and direct it toward your G-spot for maximum stimulation during intercourse.
• Add Clitoral Stimulation: Add clitoral stimulation while having intercourse by stimulating your clitoris with your fingers.



Note: Unfortunately sometimes the male ego is very fragile as is the female ego at times and some men may feel offended if you start stimulating yourself while they are having intercourse with you. The reason for this is they may feel that if you need to stimulate yourself then maybe they are not good lovers or that maybe they are not doing a good job of satisfying you. The way around this is to turn them on by touching yourself as most men love to watch women touch themselves and masturbate. This is very easily done by saying to them “I want you to watch me play with my pussy while you are fucking me! It turns me on so much!”, “Your cock feels so good inside me it makes me want to rub my pussy!” or “I want you to fuck me while I am playing with my clit!” or something along those lines think like a Porn Star and come up with something and he will love it!



• Add Vibrator Stimulation: While this is not one that I recommend too often as I don’t think that you should rely on objects and vibrators to have good sex with your partner. You might want to add clitoral stimulation by the use of a vibrator during intercourse and see if you and your partner enjoy it.

Sexual Positions For G-Spot Stimulation During Intercourse
The following sexual positions provide G-spot stimulation during intercourse.

Doggy Style Or Rear Entry

This Position is a favorite for many women because of the GSA stimulation and also because the feeling of raw animal passion that is sometimes inspires in both partners! For maximum G-spot Stimulation the man should try to thrust at a downward angle aiming his penis toward the front wall of her vagina. This position can also add even greater G-spot stimulation by the man standing and the women on her hands and knees on a bed or a couch which will place the man higher than his partner and angle the thrust of his penis downward providing greater G-spot stimulation.

Rear Entry - Woman Lying Face Down

This position is even better for GSA or G-spot stimulation. The man should enter from behind with the woman legs between his as shown above. The man rides a little higher up his penis will angle downward even more and be almost directly hitting the G-spot. In addition if the women closes her legs, her vagina will have an even tighter grip on the man’s penis. This one is a lot of fun for both partners!

Porno Style

This position was made famous in the porn films because it let’s the camera man get good penetration shots of rear entry. It also is good for G-spot stimulation and once again the higher the man rides the more directly he will stimulate her GSA. This one is also good for anal intercourse if your lover is already comfortable with anal intercourse, but I would not recommend it for the first time.

Woman on Top - Facing Her Partner

This is a favorite for many women (and men) as it allows the woman to control the speed and depth of penetration and provides very good G-spot stimulation for many women who have had G-spot and/or ejaculatory orgasms in this position. You can also guide her by putting your hands on her hips or reach around with your hand and add anal stimulation with your fingers.

Woman on Top - Facing Away

This is another great woman on top position. By the woman leaning back the angle of penetration causes the man’s penis to provide stimulation to the G-spot and GSA on the front wall of the vagina. The man can guide her with his hands on her hips or cup his hands over her breasts or (my favorite) reach around with one hand and add clitoral stimulation with his fingers, while the other hand caresses her breasts. This can also be a very erotic position to watch in the mirror as both partners can watch the man’s penis trusting in and out of the woman’s vagina.

Woman on Back Knees Up Over Chest

In this position the woman should lie on her back and bring her knees up almost to her chest. The man should either hold her legs down as he thrusts his penis aiming toward the front wall of her vagina. Or the man can hold the woman’s pelvis up buy holding placing his hand under her hips and holding her pelvis up to his and thrust aiming at her G-spot. In another variation the woman can also lie flat, then bring her knees up and place a pillow under her hips to raise the angle of entry and facilitate greater G-spot stimulation.

All knees up positions also allow for deeper penetration if desired. Of course if deeper penetration is the goal the G-spot will not receive as much stimulation. The knees up positions are good for men with shorter penises as they can penetrate deeper than they normally could.

In Conclusion
I have given you all the information that you need to give or have a G-spot orgasm and Female Ejaculatory orgasms, to have great mind blowing orgasms, and to expand your capacity for sexual pleasure for both you and your partner. Now the rest is up to you! Do the exercises, learn more about yourself or your lovers body first hand. And if at first you don’t succeed try, try and try again! Try all of the techniques and positions out!!! Practice makes perfect and what a great thing to practice, after all sex is fun!

Always let your partner know how happy you are that she is willing to share herself/himself with you. And congratulate yourself as you are on your way to becoming a First Class, Grade AAA, GREAT LOVER if you are a man! And if you are a woman you are on your way to becoming one of those women who have incredible orgasms, is in touch with her body and has a expanded capacity for sexual pleasure, the kind of woman a man loves to make love to!

Good Luck.

Guide to G-Spot: #4

Variations on Stimulation of the GSA During Oral Sex:
The above technique will most likely leave your partner shaking and breathless from an incredible G-Spot orgasm and possible female ejaculation. However I want to give you a couple of variations on the position (see figures below) and some tips that will help you keep things new and fresh for you and your partner as one of the keys to great sex is variation and keeping sex from becoming routine.

Tips and tricks that may help you when stimulating your partners G-Spot:

• In additions to the above techniques there are endless variations of combining oral stimulation and G-Spot stimulation in stages and in combination. What I am giving you are starting points and patterns that you can make your own and customize for you and your lovers own personal preferences. You want the techniques to flow and be spontaneous NOT robotic and routine.
• When you are in the late stage of G-spot stimulation you can take your other hand and put it on top of her lower abdomen and feel where your fingers are pushing on her G-spot on the inside. You can push down gently with your external hand using your palm. This will help to stimulate the G-spot from both sides. Don’t go to hard. See how she likes it and test the waters so to speak.
• Here is a technique that you can use if your tongue is long enough. You would do this instead of using your fingers in the above technique starting at step 13. With your tongue apply pressure to her external urethra area for a minute or two this will help to stimulate the G-spot externally. Then slide your tongue as far as you can into her vagina and put pressure on the top wall where her G-spot is. If your tongue is long enough you will be right at her G-spot. Use a very strong and forceful stroke where you are licking toward yourself or back and forth massaging the top wall of her vagina. If she is clearly enjoying this continue until she explodes in an orgasm or alternate back and forth between licking her G-spot and clitoris.

Oral Anal Stimulation Combined with Manual G-Spot Stimulation
I have met very few women that don’t enjoy oral sex, and while you are down there pleasing her orally is a great time to introduce new pleasurable anal stimulation with your mouth and tongue while you are stimulating her G-spot with your fingers. If you find this idea completely distasteful then you may skip the idea of using your tongue to please your lover anally. But remember you if do please her this way and follow the precautions below you have very little risk of anything unpleasant and to go one step further you can also place a dental dam or microwave able plastic wrap a fluid barrier.

Anal Sex Precautions & Safety
Even though this book is about G-Spot Stimulation & Female Ejaculation and anal stimulation is not the scope of this book I feel it necessary to cover some basic anal health and safety guidelines. I mentioned anal stimulation and the position lends it’s self to anal play and stimulation.

I want to cover the safety rules you absolutely must follow for you and your partner to have safe and healthy anal sex. I will also mention any other precautions where applicable.

WARNING: Oral – Anal stimulation if not done under the right conditions can have associated health risks as there are bacteria that live in the lower intestine that can cause serious infections in the upper gastrointestinal tract (i.e. your mouth, stomach, small intestine), or your partners vagina. If you intend to practice oral – anal stimulation, there are certain pre-cautions you should follow.

• You should know your partner well and know that she is in good health, and free from STDs, Hepatitis and HIV.
• You should only do oral - anal stimulation when your partner is fresh from the shower and/or has washed her anus and anal area thoroughly with soap and hot water. And has not had a bowel movement since she has washed.
• Nothing that penetrates your partner’s anus should come into contact with her mouth, your mouth or her vagina. I don’t recommend penetrating her anus with your tongue. If you do penetrate her anus with your finger, make sure that you don’t stimulate her anus orally after that point as when you remove the finger it could bring bacteria and/or feces from inside the rectum outside to the surface of the anus. Also remember which finger penetrated her so that later you can avoid bringing it into contact with her/your mouth or her vagina.
• If you follow these precautions you should be safe (providing that your partner is free from any and all STD’s). But remember if you do practice oral – anal stimulation you do so at your own risk.

Manually Pumping the G-Spot to Produce Female Ejaculation:
This technique should only be used after prolonged oral stimulation and/or intercourse and you have tried all of the other techniques above and/or she has already had several orgasms and/or has been stimulated for at least 20-30 minutes. If she is not very wet I suggest that you add a good water based lubricant such as Astroglide or a silicone based lubricant like ID millennium or Eros. NEVER use Vaseline as it can permit bacteria to stay in the vagina and cause an infection because it is not water soluble and is very difficult to wash out. Also if you are planning intercourse again later and are using condoms DO NOT use any oil based lubricants at all or the condom could break. Oil based lubricants such as Albolene must not be used when you are using condoms for birth control or protection from sexually transmitted diseases.

Your partner should be in the position on her knees. Slide your middle two fingers into your lover’s vagina palm up. If you can feel your partner’s G-Spot is very swollen and quite pronounced you can try to pump it manually using this technique to produce an ejaculation.

1. Stimulate her using one of the strokes you learned earlier in the manual. The Come Here Stroke the Tapping the G-Spot Stroke and the Vibrating and Pulsing Strokes are good now that she is already warmed up from intercourse, oral or other stimulation.
2. Then you want to curve your fingers so that with each stroke you are pulling your fingers along the contour of her GSA and her G-Spot from inside toward you. It’s actually like you are trying to pull her G-Spot and squeeze the liquid out of her. Be firm but not too hard you never want to cause any discomfort. Move your fingers and at the same time your arm is also pulling your hand toward you. Then you repeat. It’s like a pumping or milking motion and rhythm.
3. Try different speeds. Start slowly then gradually increase the speed to a very fast or almost frantic rate of speed.
4. Alternately you might part your fingers inside her and do the strokes with one finger on each side of he G-Spot.
5. Continue until she ejaculates or says that she wants to stop.
   

If for some women the technique above will not do the trick and make her ejaculate it is usually because the urethral & pariurethal sponges which is where the female ejaculate come from and is produced has not been stimulated enough. And rather than to rub her raw I suggest that you get some help from your friend the bullet vibrator it can work wonders.

I recently used the bullet vibrator with the technique I am about to teach you on a young woman who had never really been multi-orgasmic and she had 3 orgasms and experienced female ejaculation the very first time we tried it!

I had tried manual stimulation on her many times before and gave her many G-spot orgasms but I could never get her to ejaculate until I used the following technique. But first a little bit more about the bullet vibrator.

The Bullet or Silver Bullet are small vibrators sold at sex shops or at this link here. It is a small vibrator about the side of an lipstick container to the size and shape of an egg depending on the model. The have wire that comes out of them that leads to a little box that has holds the batteries and had the power and vibration control. You want to make sure that you get the most powerful one you can buy. In fact buy two! As I will tell you what you can to with the second one that will drive her wild as an option to the technique below!

Using a Vibrator Combined with Pumping the G-Spot to Produce Female Ejaculation: This technique can be used right after kissing and as part of foreplay. If she is not very wet I suggest that you add a good water based lubricant such as Astroglide or a silicone based lubricant like ID millennium or Eros. NEVER use Vaseline as it can permit bacteria to stay in the vagina and cause an infection because it is not water soluble and is very difficult to wash out. Also if you are planning intercourse again later and are using condoms DO NOT use any oil based lubricants at all or the condom could break. Oil based lubricants such as Albolene must not be used when you are using condoms for birth control or protection from sexually transmitted diseases.

1. Warmed her up and get her juices flowing with lot’s of kissing, touching and heavy petting for at least 20 minutes. Go down on her and tease her pussy and anus with your mouth and tongue for a while has I have taught you in other techniques in this manual. But do not give her an orgasm yet.
2. Take the Silver Bullet vibe and lube it up and turn it on to like a medium vibration. And as you are licking her slide the silver bullet all over her pussy, on the lips near the top near the bottom around the opening. Do this for 5 minutes.
3. Now slide the Silver Bullet into her vagina and with your fingers and push it up to where her G-spot is, don’t hold it there just make sure that it is in the right area right behind the pubic bone close to the opening of her vagina. Set it on as high a vibration setting that she enjoys.
4. Now while the vibrator is inside her, continue licking all around and teasing her. But try not to give her an orgasm yet. If she has one it is ok. Just leave the vibrator where it is and if she is multi-orgasmic she may have an other or if she is too sensitive, turn off the vibrator and wait a minute or two and then turn the vibe back on and resume. What we are trying to do is to use the vibrator to stimulate her urethral & pariurethal sponges to produce the female ejaculate.
5. So continue this teasing and vibration for 5 minutes longer. Then pull the vibrator out of her vagina and give it to her and tell her to use it on her clit, while you stimulate her G-spot with your fingers manually. As you learned in the last technique.
6. While you are both stimulating her she will be very close to having an orgasm and in fact may have several if she is multi orgasmic. You should be stimulating her rapidly with the pumping the G-spot technique and at the point of her orgasm withdraw your fingers very quickly. When you do this you are moving your fingers out of the way of her urethra and clearing the path so that she can ejaculate. Don’t be surprised of she ejaculates as soon as you remove your fingers. If she does not ejaculate, reinsert your fingers again and resume stimulation again and after about 30 to 60 seconds of stimulation withdraw again. Repeat this until she ejaculates or it become uncomfortable or she is too tired to continue.

Note: Not all women ejaculate at the point of orgasm so you might also use the pumping & withdrawal technique before or after her orgasm as well to produce an ejaculation

What if she does not ejaculate?
There are some women who have ejaculatory orgasms all of the time even from just clitoral stimulation and then there are those women that have had it happen before but really don’t now why or how it happened and I am sure that there are some women who are not able to ejaculate or don’t want to for what ever reason and that is why your goal should not be getting your partner to ejaculate but to give her as much pleasure as you can.

For most women female ejaculation is a new experience and they must learn how to ejaculate and accept the belief that they can. There are a few blocks that can stand in the way of a woman ejaculating for the first time. After the first time it will be much easier for her to ejaculate in the future and may be able to do it much more often if not every time and with other forms of stimulation as well.

Some things to keep in mind:

• The woman must be absolutely comfortable with you and have a strong enough emotional connection with you to share such a deeply personal and intimate experience with you. If she feels at all inhibited with you she probably will not ejaculate with you. If she has ejaculated before on her own she may fear that you will ridicule her or some how be disgusted and think she is urinating, so she may hold it back. The other consideration is that for many women the feelings are so strong when they ejaculate that they feel as though they have no control over their body as their vagina is contracting and convulsing involuntarily. They must be able to trust you completely as you guide them through this experience.
• Many women before they have had an ejaculatory orgasm sometime confuse the signal of an impending ejaculation with the urge to urinate. You may be stimulating her and get her almost to the point where she is about to ejaculate when all of a sudden she says "Stop! I have to pee!" or Wants to get up and go to the bathroom. When this happens re-assure her that this is a signal of the coming ejaculatory orgasm and perfectly normal and that she does not have to pee. Also tell her to relax and just go with the feeling. Or have her push out with her muscles as you continue stimulation.
• Her GSA may not have been aroused or stimulated enough. So women will respond better to G-spot stimulation after several clitoral orgasms first or after prolonged intercourse. So if you are not able to give or a G-spot or ejaculatory orgasm by using the technique outlined above during foreplay try it on a different occasion after giving her several clitoral orgasms first. But remember it is very important that you DO NOT pressure her to ejaculate. Once again your only goal should be for you to bring her as much pleasure as possible and to share that with her. If she ejaculates Great! If not it’s still Great!

And with those tips you now have all of the knowledge and techniques that you need to bring your partner to an explosive G-Spot Orgasm and possibly a Female Ejaculatory Orgasm as well. All that you need to do is to practice. I do suggest that that you read the rest of the manual in its entirety including the woman’s section that follows and the section on sexual positions. And share this manual with your lover. If she does the exercises in the woman’s section of the manual it will make the path to G-spot orgasms and female ejaculation even easier for her.

to be continued...

Guide to G-Spot: #3

How to locate the G-Spot Area
Make sure your partner is highly aroused by extended foreplay before you use this technique.

1. You should be in front of her, and she should be on her knees facing you.
2. Slide your hand down over her pubic area, covering her vagina.
3. Slowly slide your two middle fingers into her vagina (with your hand palm up).
4. Slowly curl your fingers back toward your palm.
5. You should be able to feel your fingers hook around and over her pubic bone. The area where the indentation is behind the pubic bone is where the G-Spot Area is.
6. The G-Spot itself, will feel like a little bump, mound or slightly swollen area that will have a rough or ridged texture the size of a nickel to the size of a quarter.
   

Now that you know where the G-Spot is located you need to know how to stimulate it properly in order to help your lover experience a G-Spot and/or an Ejaculatory Orgasm.

How To Stimulate Her G-Spot or GSA
Now that you know where the G-Spot Area (GSA) is located you need to know how to properly stimulate your partner's G-spot. In order for your partner to fully enjoy stimulation of her G-spot or GSA she will need to be highly aroused or even have had one or more orgasms already and I will talk about stimulation in both situations. This is where many men make the mistake of stimulating the GSA too soon or with too much pressure too soon, which can make the experience uncomfortable for your partner and that is the exact opposite of your desired result.

GSA Stimulation Manual Strokes
There are several different strokes that you will be using to stimulate your partners G-spot and GSA with your fingers. As you read below do the strokes in the air with your fingers and visualize them. Or practice on your other hand by turning that hand palm down and make a loosely closed fist to simulate a vagina and insert your fingers into the opening between your thumb and index fingers. This will help you to understand the strokes better.

Light Strokes
The first stroke you will use is either this one or the one below. With this stroke you will also use very light pressure with the pad of your finger. But the stroke is a forward and backward motion following the contour along the GSA vagina to her G-Spot located right behind her pubic bone. You do this very slowly and gradually increase the pressure. Then move to the stroke below.

Light Circles
With light circles you will very lightly rub her G-Spot with very light circles with the pad of your first, middle or index finger. Then you will very slowly and gradually increase the pressure and after a few minutes you will add a second finger.

Press & Release
In this stroke you press firmly on her G-Spot with the pads of either your first two or middle two fingers from the first joint all the way to the third joint. So that you are using the entire surface of the under side of your fingers, just as if you were making a bar chord playing the guitar. Hold the pressure for 10 seconds and then release for 10 seconds and then repeat. Do this several times every once in a while to break up any routine and keep the stimulation from becoming routine.

Firm Strokes
If you have already been using one of the techniques above you can move right in to this stroke. This is basically the same as the “Light Strokes” motion above except this time you are using firm to very firm strokes. Using either your first two or middle two fingers you slide your fingers along the contour along the GSA vagina to her G-Spot located right behind her pubic bone. Stroke firmly back and forth. She must be already very aroused for this stroke to be pleasurable otherwise the firmness of the stroke could cause discomfort. Another variation is to part your fingers slightly while doing the stroke and massage on both sides of the G-Spot, which may be more comfortable for her because you are not pressing directly on her urethra. Try it both ways and see which she prefers.

Come Here Stroke
After you have warmed her up with one of the other strokes you can start to use this stroke. With either your first two or middle two fingers inside your partners vagina you bend your fingers toward you making a “come here” motion like if you were motioning for someone to come toward you. With each stroke you will run your finger along on the front wall of the vagina massaging the GSA and G-spot. Try shallow and deep strokes covering different areas along the GSA to see what your partner likes best. Also try different variations of speed. Start slow and then slowly speed up as your partner gets closer to orgasm.

Tapping the G-Spot
This is very similar to the motion above but while you are making the “come here” motion you also move your hand up and down very fast. Your goal is to firmly tap her G-Spot with your finger tips/pads while you are moving your hand up and down stimulating the entrance of her vagina.

Hitting the G-Spot
In this stroke you are sliding your fingers in and out and hitting her G-Spot or GSA with the soft pad/tips of your fingers with each stroke. Aim your fingers at the GSA not just straight in and out. This is a moderate to fast stroke.

Vibrating Stroke
With this stroke you are combining the “Come here Stroke” and “Tapping the G-Spot” but you are making very short and quick movements, not the full strokes like in the other two. Your movements should be so short and fast that your hand is actually vibrating. You will then be hitting her G-Spot/GSA with small vibratory strokes. Your hand and arm will get tired pretty quickly. So this is not the first stroke to use, but better for late in the game. Another way to use this technique is the variation below the “Pulse Stroke” which will enable you to use this vibrating stroke for longer periods of time longer.

Pulse Stroke
This is the same stroke as above except that you pulse it for 3-4 stokes and then pause for 1-2 seconds and then pulse another 3-4 strokes. Repeat this for as long as you and your partner desire. This pulsing will feel very good to her and also let your hand and arm rest for a few moments so that you can continue this stroke for a while. If she is about to cum you might then move to the “Vibrating Stroke” for continuous stimulation while she is having her orgasm or ejaculating.

G-spot Stimulation as part of foreplay
Using G-spot stimulation as part of foreplay before intercourse is probably the most common method and is also one of the most fun for both partners. It really gets the women ready for intercourse and at the same time you can give her a powerful orgasm and the whole idea of stimulating her with your hand is very playful by nature.

In this technique we concentrate on building arousal and teasing and then the slow and gradual stimulation of the G-spot rather than clitoral or combined stimulation. Now as you read the steps below I want you to imagine yourself doing each step to your lover or a woman of your choice so that your mind will accept this as part of your library of sexual techniques and it will become second nature to you.

So here are the steps one by one for manual stimulation alone:

1. Start off with a lot of passionate kissing. Women often complain that men don't kiss them enough especially after they have been with them for a while in a relationship. You can never go wrong with long passionate, probing kissing.
2. Learn how to give her a sensual massage. At least caress every inch of her body with long soft strokes. She will love you for this. Kiss and taste every inch of her body except her vagina. Kiss her neck, breasts, tummy etc...
3. Spend allot of time touching and stroking her inner thighs. But don't touch her vagina yet! You want to tease her and build up the anticipation.
4. After a few minutes of this teasing, gently rest the heel of your hand right above her pubic hair on her pubic bone and cup your hand over her vagina. Don't touch her yet but get your hand so close that she can feel the heat from your hand. During all of this you should be next to her kissing her on the mouth or kissing and sucking her breasts and nipples.
5. Now take your hand and put two fingers on each side of her vagina (you will have to spread your fingers where you have your 1st and 2nd fingers on one side and your 3rd and 4th on the other side) and gently and slowly rub the whole area in a circle clockwise Do this for 2-3 minutes.
6. Spread her vaginal lips apart by spreading your fingers apart and then bring your fingers and her vaginal lips back together again. Do this as you continue to rub in the circular motion that you started in step. Do this until you can feel her wetness seep through to your fingers.
7. Put your middle finger right on the opening of her vagina and slowly and gently tease and rub around the edge of the opening.(You are still next to her kissing her and sucking her nipples at the same time) Continue teasing her in this way. Ask her if she likes it or tell her that you love to touch her as you continue to do this.
8. Very slowly insert your finger in to her vagina about ½" and continue the circular motion for a minute or two. (make sure before do this that your fingernails are trimmed and filed and don’t have any sharp or jagged edged. Or you will hurt her and ruin the whole process!)
9. Slide your finger in deeper to her G-spot (Remember how to find it from above). And slowly massage the area in a small circle with very light pressure (About the same pressure that you would apply chap stick or lip balm to you lips with your finger.)
10. After a few minutes of this she will really start moving and you will see that she is very, very turned on. At this point you can increase the pressure slightly. And continue the stroke.
11. You should now add a second finger either your 1st or 3rd which ever you prefer. And continue the motion for 1-2 minutes.
12. Now you will add in three other strokes to the technique. In the 1st stroke you will use both of your fingers and curl them back toward your palm stroking the top wall of her vagina and the GSA area right behind the pubic bone. You should start off with the same pressure that you have been using and you can use more pressure once she is very aroused! In the 2nd stroke you will hook your fingers around her pubic bone and put pressure directly on her G-Spot (remember it’s about the size of a dime or nickel and will feel a little rougher in texture than the surrounding area) and make a in and out vibration type of movement keeping the pressure on her G-Spot. The 3rd stroke is very similar to the first but instead of curling your finger toward your self for the movement you will keep your fingers hooked around the pubic bone and your fingers will keep constant pressure on her GSA, but you will also slide your finger tips back and forth over the entire GSA and in and out of that nook where your have your fingers hooked around the pubic bone.
13. Start with the first new stroke and try that for a minute or two. Ask her how it feels to her, then try the second stroke and the third. See which one she feels the best to her. And continue with one of the 4 strokes you now have learned. Alternatively you can use the GSA Stimulation Manual Strokes.
14. Continue the stimulation. You may at this point may begin to feel deep muscle contractions in her vaginal walls and you may also feel her vaginal muscles tighten around your fingers. This is a good sign an means she is on her way to a vaginal orgasm. Alternately you may feel her vagina get looser and balloon outward and get very wet suddenly this is also a signal that she is approaching a G-spot or vaginal orgasm and possibly even a ejaculatory orgasm.
15. At this point she is only a few minutes away from a very powerful deep vaginal orgasm. It could be anywhere from another 2 minutes to 20 minutes. So keep up the stimulation and also talk to her and tell her how much she turns you on and tell her to cum for you, and how beautiful she is. Her mind is the most powerful sex organ she has so you should stimulate her mind as well by talking to her. If you know that she likes to talk dirty then this is the perfect time for that.

At this point all you can do is to continue what you have been doing so far. Her orgasm is on the way. She may or may not ejaculate when she has her orgasm, and ejaculation should not be your goal. Your only goal should be for you to bring her as much pleasure as possible and to share that with her.

Stimulation of the G-spot During Oral Sex
In this technique you are going to stimulate her orally at first and then add G-spot stimulation with your fingers while you stimulate her clitoris with your mouth. You will still want to start with the extended foreplay even before you go down on her.

1. Start off with a lot of kissing. Women often complain that men don't kiss them enough especially after they have been with them for a while. You can never go wrong with long passionate, exploring kissing.
2. I suggest that you learn how to give her a sensual massage. At least caress every inch of her body with long soft strokes. She will love you for this. Kiss and taste every inch of her body except her vagina. Kiss her neck, breasts, upper and lower abdomen etc…
3. Spend a lot of time touching and stroking her inner thighs. But don't touch her vagina yet! You want to tease her and build up the anticipation for your touch there.
4. After a few minutes of this teasing, gently rest the heel of your hand right above her pubic hair on her pubic bone and cup your hand over her vagina. Don't touch her yet but get your hand so close that she can feel the heat from your hand. During all of this you should be next to her kissing her on the mouth or kissing and sucking her breast and nipples.
5. Take your hand and put two fingers on each side of her vagina ( you will have fingers split where you have your 1st and 2nd fingers on one side and your 3rd and 4th on the other side) and gently and slow the rub the whole area in a circle clockwise Do this for 2-3 minutes.
6. Now move down between her legs and slowly and sensuously kiss and lick her calves one at a time and slide your tongue up the inside her leg.
7. Lift up her legs one at a time and kiss, lick and gently suck the area on the side and back of her leg right behind her knee. This area is very sensitive and she will really enjoy this.(use enough pressure so that you don’t tickle her)
8. Move up to her inner thigh and very slowly kiss and lick and suck her inner thighs one at a time. Vary your kissing and licking. And here is a good stroke for you to use that you might not have used before. Gently suck the skin on her inner thigh near her knee and with out breaking the suction slide your mouth all the way up to the top of her leg where it meets her pubic area. To do this you will have to lick the area where you will be sliding your mouth and get the area very wet first.




9. At this point her vagina will be almost dripping wet. But you are still going to tease her some more until she is like a bubbling volcano about to erupt. So now move your mouth up to the area around her vulva (the external vaginal area). Kiss, lick and suck all around both sides along the area next to her vulva. Lick her there with long sweeping strokes with your tongue, kiss, suck and lick her all over the area next to her vulva. Do the same to the other side and right above and below her vagina on her perineum (the space below her vagina and above her anus, This area is very sensitive and she will love it!) Do this for a 2-3 minutes and she will want you to lick her clit so bad she won’t be able to stand it.
10. After you have teased her for a while as described in step 9 slowly start licking, kissing and sucking on her outer vaginal lips. Then lick with long strokes up and down the outside, on, and inside of each lip.
11. Now make your tongue as wide as possible and lick her vagina from the very bottom of her perineum to the very top of her clitoral hood (it’s the same motion you would use as if you were licking an ice cream cone. Do this several times.
12. Start to focus on her clitoris directly now. You can lick up and down or side to side, or make circles with your tongue around and around her clit. Listen to her and find out what she likes and when she says "oh yeah, Right There!" or something to that effect you know you are on the right track so don’t do anything different. Just keep doing the same thing.

Note: Ask her to tell you when she is going to cum so that you can back off and stop stimulating her when she tells you she is about to cum. At this point you should bring her just to the edge of her orgasm and when she tells you she is about to cum, back off and not let her have the orgasm yet. Kiss her elsewhere and stop all stimulation for ten seconds or so. Now start the stimulation again and bring her to the edge of her orgasm again. Do this at least 3-5 times and the move on to the step below.

13. Now add in the G-spot stimulation in the following manner. Very slowly start to gently touch the opening of her vagina with one of your fingers (either your index or middle finger will work best) while you continue clitoral stimulation with your mouth. Slowly rotate your finger around the opening over her vagina. At this point you are just teasing her vagina and your finger should not be in her any further than ½". She may start to push her vagina closer to you bringing your finger deeper into her, but don’t go any deeper than the ½" at this time. REMEMBER you are in control right now (It’s a great feeling to be in control when you are with a women…lol) and you are the one who is bringing her great pleasure so just keep up the teasing and clitoral stimulation and if she start to cum you can do one of the following:
    
    A. Let her cum and wait another 90 seconds to 2 minutes before resuming direct stimulation.
    
    B. Stop stimulation and not let her cum. Kiss her and let her cool down just a bit for about 20-30 seconds and start stimulation again. By doing this you will increase her sexual tension and bring her arousal and anticipation up even higher.
14. As you continue clitoral stimulation with your mouth, slowly slide your finger another ½" into her vagina. So now you are about 1" inside her. Keep doing the circular teasing and also in and out motion. Do this for another minute or so.
15. Then slide your finger in another ½" deeper and start to rub the top wall of her vagina with the pad (where your finger print is) of your finger with very light pressure in a circular clockwise motion. Do this as continue oral stimulation of her clit for 2 minutes.
16. Slide your finger into her ½"-1" more, so now you are about 1 ½" inches to 2" inches inside her, about up to your second knuckle. Now try to feel for her G-Spot on the top wall of her vagina (remember it should be a slightly swollen area about the size of a dime.) massage it very gently with a come here motion with your finger. Continue to do this and at the some time continue to stimulate her clit with your tongue. As she gets more and more turned on and closer to a G-spot orgasm you can increase the amount of pressure you are using. Continue this for a few minutes. (Always make sure that she is very well lubricated either with her vaginal juices or from your saliva)
17. At this time you will want to add a second finger slowly and then continue the same stroke.
18. You will want to try different level of pressure, speed and strokes as you learned in the GSA Stimulation Manual Strokes section. You maybe thrusting your fingers in and out of the GSA sliding your fingertips along the G-spot it’s self or making a vibratory movement with your fingertips with constant pressure on her G-spot. Try it all, be creative and see what your lover responds to best you may discover something that works great for your lover that I have not covered here. But at this point you must keep both your tongue and your fingers moving and overload her with stimulation. This will bring her a very powerful combined G-spot and clitoral orgasm.

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Guide to G-Spot: #2

Techniques for Men to Stimulate Their Partners
Maybe you have massaged a woman's G-spot before but she did not have an orgasm or ejaculate. Why? There may be a few reasons that she did not have an orgasm. The most common are:

• She may not have been relaxed enough.
• She may not feel comfortable enough with you to let her self go.
• You may not have stimulated her in the right manner, place, or used the right pressure.
• You may not have stimulated her long enough or intensely enough.
• You may have put mental pressure on her or she on herself to perform.
• She may believe that she can't, and then she most likely won't be able to.
• She may have weak sexual muscles.
• Her State of Arousal was not high and/or intense enough.

For a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm she must be stimulated properly. But for a women to have an ejaculatory orgasm there are several other variables that must be present for it to happen. I have stimulated many women to G-spot orgasms that did not have an ejaculatory orgasm. And as you have read many of the women who answered the survey had ejaculatory orgasms but not G-spot orgasms. While the female ejaculate does come from the area behind the location of the G-spot is it not necessary for all women to have their G-spot it stimulated to have an ejaculatory orgasm. Many women say that they have ejaculatory orgasms from oral sex. For many others oral sex combined with finger or manual stimulation of the G-spot or intercourse. Others require a vibrator. But there is one thing that is common to almost of the women that were surveyed was:

• A Very High Level of Arousal: Some women required a X-rated move or Dirty Talk, Nipples Bitten or to be spanked. The key here is to find out what turns your lover on the most, what arouses her the most and do that thing! Over and Over! Bring her to a very high level of arousal. In order for a woman to ejaculate, she must be very aroused mentally and physically.
• Prolonged stimulation: Before a woman can ejaculate her G-spot must be very engorged. Some women do not need any G-spot stimulation to achieve this and that is why they can ejaculate without any G-spot stimulation. But most women will require some or a lot of G-spot or combined G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Before they will be able to have an ejaculatory orgasm. You will need to stimulate her for at least 20-30 minutes up to over an hour in some cases, until she has been stimulated enough to ejaculate. This may before her first orgasm or for some women after they have already had a few.
• Intense Stimulation: Once she has reached a very high level of arousal and her G-spot has swollen up inside her. She will require very intense stimulation. That can mean constant pressure or harder pressure or faster stimulation or even slower stimulation. Every women is different. You need to find out what works for her. Talk to her and ask her what she likes. Ask her to show you how to touch her.
• She Must Have Strong Sexual Muscles. If her sexual muscles or PC and pelvic floor muscles are weak she probably will not be able to ejaculate and in some cases might not even be able to orgasm. In the woman’s section I cover how she can build up and improve her sexual muscle tone and strength.
• She Must Be Relaxed and Have a Clear Mind: it's not going to work if she is thinking about her grocery list, something that happened at work today or about how hard she is trying to ejaculate. Most of all it is absolutely essential that she feel very comfortable with you. And you make her feel very safe and secure. That you are not pressuring her to have a G-spot or ejaculatory orgasm, that you make her feel that you are only there to be with her and pleasure her. Stimulation alone is not enough; you must also help her break through the psychological barriers as well.
  

People have written volumes and volumes on sex and only a handful mention female ejaculation and they almost all say them same thing "some women experience ejaculatory orgasms with G-spot stimulation", but they don't tell you how to do it. You might rub your woman raw trying to figure it out. She may have a few orgasms on the way and if you are very lucky she may ejaculate, but once again it is hit and miss.

Positions for manual G-Spot Area stimulation


Woman on her back with the man between her legs is a great position for GSA stimulation and allows easy access to the Clitoris, G-Spot and at the same time you are able to view your partners reactions to your stimulation.



Woman up right on her knees with the man in front of her is also a great position for GSA stimulation and also the position I recommend that you use when trying to find her G-Spot and GSA for the first time and also when using the technique for manually pumping her G-Spot to produce a female ejaculation.



The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulation for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derriere. He can also add other erotic stimulation by spanking or slapping his partner on her ass (if he and she enjoy that type of play.) In any position from behind the woman the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the GSA because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.



The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-Spot and/or an ejaculatory orgasm for the first time because of the physical closeness and emotional security that you can provide in this position that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

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Guide to G-Spot: #1

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What is the G-Spot
The G-Spot is actually a mass of spongy erectile tissue that surrounds the urethra internally know as the urethral & pariurethal sponges. The G-Spot was named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg who was one of the first doctors to bring attention to the area when he published an article in 1944 locating the area. While the attention and awareness brought to the G-spot is has increased over the last 50 years the spot it's self is not new and has been around as long as women have been and as been known of by the Ancient Taoist and Tantric Sex practitioners as evidenced in their writings where they make references to both the spot and female ejaculation. There are a few books about the G-spot most of them will bore you with a long history of scientific studies.

Where is the G-Spot
The G-Spot or the G-Spot Area or GSA is located on the front wall of the woman's vagina about 1 ½”- 2" inches inside right behind the clitoris and pubic bone. Most of the time the spot is in the 11:00 to 1:00 O'Clock position if you are looking at her from the front. The G-Spot swells during sexual stimulation and is between the size of a dime to a nickel, however the whole area or region around the G-Spot may be very sensitive to sexual stimulation hence forth the term G-Spot Area or GSA.




What is Female ejaculation
Until recently female ejaculation has been thought to be the property of either porn queens or has been dismissed by in large to be urination or incontinence, even though the ejaculate does not have the same appearance, smell, or chemical properties as urine.

This is mostly in part do to ignorance and may be a little envy on the part of men with the attitude of "NOW THEY CAN EJACULATE TOO! What's next?", who would rather just dismiss it or brush it aside than to feel intimidated or threatened by it. It is a shame that people fear what they don't understand rather than to explore it to gain knowledge and insight.

Another block to the mass education and acceptance of female ejaculation is the fact that many feminists, and sex educators fear that if female ejaculation becomes accepted as normal then women who don’t have ejaculatory orgasms may somehow feel pressured to ejaculate or be viewed as some how lacking or deficient because they are unable to ejaculate when compared to women that do ejaculate.

But as time goes on we find that women have a far greater capacity for sexual pleasure than ever thought of before i.e. multiple orgasms, G-spot orgasms, and now female ejaculation. So this promising new territory in female sexuality has been passed over, and rarely explored in depth for whatever reason. If you were to ask most gynecologist or medical doctors about female ejaculation they would most likely will tell you that it's just urine.

Most medical doctors really don’t know much about human sexuality other than just the basic function and related diseases. If extensive studies have not been published and that particular doctor has not read them (and most doctors are too busy to read all of the studies) they will just fall back on what they learned in school or heard from another doctor. This has been the case with female ejaculation as it has been dismissed as urinary incontinence at the time of orgasm. Just as if you ask a doctor if penis enlargement is possible they will tell you it’s not except for surgery. Which I know for a fact is absolutely false. Doctors are not trying to mislead you, it’s just that many are not well informed about certain aspects of human sexuality.

It has taken many years just for the G-spot to come in to it's own let alone the possibility of female ejaculation. Many woman have experienced female ejaculation for years, and others have occasionally experienced it, but had buried this sexual treasure so to speak, to avoid ridicule and shame from their lovers and society for the fear that there was something wrong with them. And still many women have never experienced it for they did not even consider the possibility.

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