Guide to G-Spot: #2

Techniques for Men to Stimulate Their Partners
Maybe you have massaged a woman's G-spot before but she did not have an orgasm or ejaculate. Why? There may be a few reasons that she did not have an orgasm. The most common are:

• She may not have been relaxed enough.
• She may not feel comfortable enough with you to let her self go.
• You may not have stimulated her in the right manner, place, or used the right pressure.
• You may not have stimulated her long enough or intensely enough.
• You may have put mental pressure on her or she on herself to perform.
• She may believe that she can't, and then she most likely won't be able to.
• She may have weak sexual muscles.
• Her State of Arousal was not high and/or intense enough.

For a woman to experience a G-spot orgasm she must be stimulated properly. But for a women to have an ejaculatory orgasm there are several other variables that must be present for it to happen. I have stimulated many women to G-spot orgasms that did not have an ejaculatory orgasm. And as you have read many of the women who answered the survey had ejaculatory orgasms but not G-spot orgasms. While the female ejaculate does come from the area behind the location of the G-spot is it not necessary for all women to have their G-spot it stimulated to have an ejaculatory orgasm. Many women say that they have ejaculatory orgasms from oral sex. For many others oral sex combined with finger or manual stimulation of the G-spot or intercourse. Others require a vibrator. But there is one thing that is common to almost of the women that were surveyed was:

• A Very High Level of Arousal: Some women required a X-rated move or Dirty Talk, Nipples Bitten or to be spanked. The key here is to find out what turns your lover on the most, what arouses her the most and do that thing! Over and Over! Bring her to a very high level of arousal. In order for a woman to ejaculate, she must be very aroused mentally and physically.
• Prolonged stimulation: Before a woman can ejaculate her G-spot must be very engorged. Some women do not need any G-spot stimulation to achieve this and that is why they can ejaculate without any G-spot stimulation. But most women will require some or a lot of G-spot or combined G-spot and clitoral stimulation. Before they will be able to have an ejaculatory orgasm. You will need to stimulate her for at least 20-30 minutes up to over an hour in some cases, until she has been stimulated enough to ejaculate. This may before her first orgasm or for some women after they have already had a few.
• Intense Stimulation: Once she has reached a very high level of arousal and her G-spot has swollen up inside her. She will require very intense stimulation. That can mean constant pressure or harder pressure or faster stimulation or even slower stimulation. Every women is different. You need to find out what works for her. Talk to her and ask her what she likes. Ask her to show you how to touch her.
• She Must Have Strong Sexual Muscles. If her sexual muscles or PC and pelvic floor muscles are weak she probably will not be able to ejaculate and in some cases might not even be able to orgasm. In the woman’s section I cover how she can build up and improve her sexual muscle tone and strength.
• She Must Be Relaxed and Have a Clear Mind: it's not going to work if she is thinking about her grocery list, something that happened at work today or about how hard she is trying to ejaculate. Most of all it is absolutely essential that she feel very comfortable with you. And you make her feel very safe and secure. That you are not pressuring her to have a G-spot or ejaculatory orgasm, that you make her feel that you are only there to be with her and pleasure her. Stimulation alone is not enough; you must also help her break through the psychological barriers as well.
  

People have written volumes and volumes on sex and only a handful mention female ejaculation and they almost all say them same thing "some women experience ejaculatory orgasms with G-spot stimulation", but they don't tell you how to do it. You might rub your woman raw trying to figure it out. She may have a few orgasms on the way and if you are very lucky she may ejaculate, but once again it is hit and miss.

Positions for manual G-Spot Area stimulation


Woman on her back with the man between her legs is a great position for GSA stimulation and allows easy access to the Clitoris, G-Spot and at the same time you are able to view your partners reactions to your stimulation.



Woman up right on her knees with the man in front of her is also a great position for GSA stimulation and also the position I recommend that you use when trying to find her G-Spot and GSA for the first time and also when using the technique for manually pumping her G-Spot to produce a female ejaculation.



The woman bent over on her hands and knees with the man behind her can be very stimulation for both partners. This is especially pleasing and erotic for the man if the man is fond of his partner’s derriere. He can also add other erotic stimulation by spanking or slapping his partner on her ass (if he and she enjoy that type of play.) In any position from behind the woman the man must use a downward pressure with his fingers to stimulate the GSA because the position of the front wall of the vagina is reversed from the other positions with the woman on her back.



The woman on her back with the man beside her position is one of the best positions for helping a woman to experience a G-Spot and/or an ejaculatory orgasm for the first time because of the physical closeness and emotional security that you can provide in this position that most women need to be able to let themselves go and experience a deeper orgasm and ejaculation. You can kiss her, whisper sweet nothings to her, squeeze her to reassure her that you are there with her and stimulate her at the same time. The drawback is that your arm can get tired very quickly in this position.

to be continued...